Stop Being Mean To Me!
Sometimes the person you're trying to help becomes the very one who hurts you the most. Caregiving can mean absorbing anger, hurtful words, and behaviors no one else sees, then showing up at work as if nothing happened.
Sometimes the person you're trying to help becomes the very one who hurts you the most. Caregiving can mean absorbing anger, hurtful words, and behaviors no one else sees, then showing up at work as if nothing happened.
Sometimes what feels like a wrong turn is quietly positioning us exactly where we're supposed to be. One missed email, one unexpected phone call, and one literal wrong turn reminded me how the hardest chapters of our lives can lead us straight to our purpose.
Three years after Papa Kemp’s passing and nearly one year into this newsletter, I’m looking back at how quickly time passes, how this work has evolved, and why helping employers recognize the caregivers already in their workforce matters so much.
Sometimes the person you're caring for is also the person who hurt you. What happens when decades of unresolved pain collide with the responsibility of caregiving? Let's talk about the emotional weight caregivers often carry but rarely say out loud.
When most people hear the word caregiver, they picture someone caring for an aging parent. But caregiving shows up in far more ways than we realize. And sometimes, the assumptions we make keep us from seeing what's really happening behind the scenes.
Even good things carry stress. Sometimes the first sign you're carrying too much isn't exhaustion. It's when everything around you suddenly seems louder.
Your face isn't the only place holding tension. What if the assumptions we make at work are causing us to solve the wrong problems instead of the real ones?
What if the greatest threat to our future well-being isn't a crisis, but a slow drift away from the people who matter most? A reflection on aging, caregiving, community, and the hidden cost of gradual isolation.
A long-overdue pause revealed a powerful truth. What we often see as an obstruction may actually be the very system designed to keep us afloat. A reflection on caregiving, leadership, and the hidden structures that hold everything together.