Before “Caregiver Advocate" There Was Her
Before there was a keynote stage or a caregiver advocacy platform, there was Little Mama. The story behind the work I do today starts here.
Before there was a keynote stage or a caregiver advocacy platform, there was Little Mama. The story behind the work I do today starts here.
Five 18-year-old freshmen. Seven minutes to present. Three minutes of questions. What helped our team win first place and $25,000 at the Nisbet Venture Fund Pitch Competition had less to do with the slides and more to do with mastering the message.
A simple snow globe analogy reveals a deeper truth about today's workforce: caregiving is often invisible, yet it impacts millions of employees every day. When leaders understand the context behind performance, trust, retention, and workplace culture begin to change.
The employee who logs into work each morning may already have lived through a full day before 8 AM. A look inside the hidden realities many employee caregivers face before the workday even begins.
A week at Tuck School of Business reminded me that strategy matters, but relationships open doors strategy alone cannot. Sometimes the biggest opportunities come because someone believed in you before you fully saw it yourself.
Some storms arrive with thunder.
Others creep in quietly, settling into anger, grief, guilt, loneliness, and anxiety before we even recognize them. Caregivers often carry emotions they rarely speak aloud, believing they need to stay strong for everyone else. But healing begins when we name what we've been carrying. Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is whisper it loud.
Stepping onto a stage with no notes, no teleprompter, and only five minutes to tell a deeply personal story was both terrifying and exhilarating. While I didn't place in the competition, I walked away with something equally valuable: a deeper appreciation for the craft of storytelling, the courage to try something new, and a renewed commitment to leveling up for the next stage.
They seem calm. Capable. Unshaken.
But some of the strongest people you know are carrying storms no one else can see.
The Quiet Storm explores the hidden weight of responsibility, the cost of holding everything together, and why calm does not always mean someone is okay.
What if the greatest threat to our future well-being isn't a crisis, but a slow drift away from the people who matter most? A reflection on aging, caregiving, community, and the hidden cost of gradual isolation.